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You know, it took me a little while to
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figure out what I wanted to call this
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talk. I got hung up for a while on the
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period of time we're going to be
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covering
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a while.
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I uh started to feel a little vain about
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the subject matter,
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got a little whimsical along the way,
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and there was a period of time where I
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contemplated trying to submit the
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longest talk title I could think that
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might get accepted to RailsCom,
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but I ended up here.
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If you're familiar with me on Ruby Conf
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or Railscom stages, you might know me as
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the person that built the informed
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consent application for the food
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scientists.
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Or maybe as that person that worked at
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the company with perfect code.
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You might know me as a startup founder
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who can tell you when it's sweater
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weather
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or the person that tooured the country
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with a band.
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I might be your MBA professor who gave
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you your degree.
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Maybe you know me as the person that
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wrote their own search engine.
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or the person that can play guitar like
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one of the greatest who have ever done
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it and translate it into code for you.
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The truth is none of those experiences
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that I've talked about on stage are
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actually true. Sorry everybody,
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but today I'm going to talk about me. So
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hi, my name is Kevin. I live in
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Massachusetts,
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but I've never written a Ruby parser and
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I've never contributed to an alternative
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implementation of Ruby. I'm the other
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Kevin.
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There's only three of us.
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I'm going to talk about Railscom
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and I'm going to do so using a paradigm
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that a lot of us might be familiar with.
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And to get started, we need to go back
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to 2014.
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I'm working at a company building
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internal tooling for them, and we're
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kicking off a new project. And my
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manager at the time says, "You know
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what, Kevin? I bet we can build this
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faster and better using Rails."
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And I said, "That sounds great, Ari, but
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what's a Rails?"
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And he gave me the time and space to
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work with it. And we did build that
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application in Rails. And along the way,
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I built up my understanding of what it
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meant to work with Rails and where to
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find information about Rails, like all
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the different websites I could look at
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and books I could buy and courses I can
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subscribe to. Of course, by building the
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app itself, I was gaining experience.
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And I knew that there were people using
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this thing,
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but I didn't know where to find them.
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see where I was right now. I couldn't
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satisfy this validation.
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So, I went looking
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and I found a thing called Railscom.
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So, I asked my company if they'd support
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me in going and they said, "Yeah, they
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paid for my ticket, my travel, my hotel,
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and all the food that I ate there. It's
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pretty awesome."
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And they did this by calling it
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professional development, which were the
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magic words I didn't know to say.
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This was a while ago. I'll remind you,
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your situation might be a little
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different.
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But regardless of the conference
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reimbursement policy available to you, I
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hope that you advocate for yourself.
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I will take a step back and know that
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advocating for yourself can be scary and
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sometimes unsafe. and it's important to
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know when it's the right time to deploy
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it. But one thing I do want to dispel is
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the concern that advocacy means asking
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for money because that's not true. There
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are lots of ways you can advocate for
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yourself that don't show up in a
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company's financial statement as easily
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as asking for a ticket to Railscom.
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Advocating for yourself might mean
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asking to have meetings that happen at a
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time that work well for you. Maybe
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you're a person that likes all your
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meetings all at once. Or you need time
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in between to decompress and get ready
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for the next one.
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Advocating for yourself might mean
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asking for pairing sessions so that you
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can share what you know with someone
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else and you can learn what they know
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not only about what you do, but how you
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do it.
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Advocating for yourself might mean
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asking to be put on that preferred
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project so that you can demonstrate your
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strengths or have it provide a growth
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opportunity for you.
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For me, advocating for myself brought me
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to Rails Comp.
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And it was there that I fell in love
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with Ruby
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and became enamored with how many other
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people seemed to like this thing.
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How many people are familiar with Sandy
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Mets's talk from this conference using
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the Gilded Rose Katada?
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Who was in the room?
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I didn't raise my hand for that second
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one. I was in a different session.
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I didn't know who Sandy was. I didn't
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know who anyone was. That's why I was
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there.
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But I needed a way to figure it out. And
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I had one trick up my sleeve. It was
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playoff season for hockey. And the team
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I support was in and they were going to
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be playing a game during the conference.
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And I was hoping maybe I could find
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someone else who'd want to go watch the
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game with me. And then we'd have two
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things to talk about, Rails and Hockey.
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And that's more than one.
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I just needed to find these willing
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participants. And I could have wandered
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the halls just yelling and telling
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everyone what I was doing, but that's
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not really my style. I'm not that great
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with people, even though I'm standing in
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front of a lot of them right now.
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So instead, I turned to a little known
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site at the time called twitter.com.
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It was this place where at the time you
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could make short messages of 140
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characters or less. And if you included
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a hashtag, someone who doesn't follow
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you but does follow the hashtag might
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see your message.
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And this worked. I did find someone who
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wanted to see the game, but our paths
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never crossed and we didn't even meet up
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that night.
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We did agree to meet for breakfast the
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next morning and we succeeded in doing
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that. And after breakfast, but before
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the conference programming started, I
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found myself staring at the job board.
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Not because I was looking for a job. I
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just wanted to get a better
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understanding of what the companies were
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that were using this thing. Some of them
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I had heard of before and many more I
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hadn't. A lot of them were missing
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vowels where they very obviously should
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have been and it must have been super
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embarrassing for whoever wrote it on the
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board.
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But one of the companies stood out
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because they mentioned that they were in
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my area. And I thought, hey, what a
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great opportunity to not only meet
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people who do the thing that I do, but
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also do it near where I do it.
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Just needed to find a way to find them.
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So, I did the same thing and I messaged
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their corporate account and just wanted
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to see what would happen and they got
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back to me and tagged every single
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person on the team that was there
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representing the company. They
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introduced me without me having to do it
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to almost everyone.
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I had already met one of them for
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breakfast that morning and
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didn't even know it.
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And this group was very kind and they
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let me join them and tag along for the
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rest of the conference and they were
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smart and they were solving interesting
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problems. And I decided to take a risk
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and on the flight home I filled out the
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application because after all they were
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hiring.
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I didn't submit it until we got back
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because I'll remind you this was 2014.
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If you think airplane Wi-Fi is bad now,
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we were just happy to be flying in a
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tube in the sky.
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I went through the interview process and
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I got a job there and I went back to
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Rails Comp the next year, this time as a
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member of that company.
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And I did that by extending myself,
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but not in ways that were beyond my
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capacity.
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And by making those small changes, I
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went from having a job as a software
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developer
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to a career as a Rubist.
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So, how are you going to extend
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yourself?
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Maybe you could meet someone new.
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Did you sign up for the lightning talks
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yesterday?
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Have you seen the roving bands of
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podcasters looking to do uh uh hallway
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track interviews? One of them could be
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you.
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Are you just open to meeting new people
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for dinner tonight? How you choose to
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engage is up to you.
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Now, having been to RailsCom a few
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times, I became particularly interested
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in the speakers that had all these
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wonderful, wise things to say on stage.
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And I started to wonder if I could ever
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sucker anyone into listening to what I
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had to say on stage. I still do every
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time,
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but I didn't know how to do that.
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Logistically, I didn't even understand
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how speakers came to be speakers.
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I didn't know if it was just invite only
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or if there was some underground scene
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of people trading slide decks to find
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out the new hotness on the conference
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circuit.
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I didn't know if people just rushed the
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stage in the first however many people
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got to give their talk.
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It turns out at Ruby Central events and
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a lot of other conferences there's a
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thing called a call for proposals where
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you can fill out some information on
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what you want to speak on. people review
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it and that's how they decide who will
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be part of the program.
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And what makes up this proposal might
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change from conference to conference,
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but the general idea is roughly the
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same. You want some snazzy title, a
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couple of sentences to convince people
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that for coming. Thank you all for being
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here. It worked. Then you want some more
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details to let the program committee
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know exactly what they're getting
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themselves into so you don't surprise
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them. And it's always good to include
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some information about why this talk is
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a good fit for this conference and why
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you're the right person to give it.
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So I sent a proposal in
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and I got rejected.
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So I did it again. I made a new one,
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sent it in and I got rejected.
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So I did it again. This time I looked
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back at the proposals I'd already
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written, took in the feedback that I got
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from them, put some new fun twists on
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it, added in some new information about
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what I knew about what made for a great
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proposal,
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and I sent that in,
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and I got rejected.
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So, I did it again, and I got rejected.
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And I did it again, and I got rejected.
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But this time was a little different
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because 10 days earlier, I had gotten
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another email.
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At a lot of conferences, you can submit
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more than one proposal. Sometimes it's
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just a numbers game.
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And one of my other talks had gotten
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accepted.
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I did it.
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I had done this thing that I had set out
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for for years.
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I didn't just stop the first time
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someone said, "Not right now.
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It turns out there's lots of reasons
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that proposals, even good ones, get
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rejected from conferences.
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They could have gotten a lot of
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proposals about a similar topic. We are,
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after all, at Railscom and not active
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job comp, right? It could just not be
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the right mix for what the program is
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looking for. It's not a reflection on
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you and the work that you put in. It's
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just what works best for the conference.
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Speaking about CFPs here, but the point
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is more broad. If there are things that
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are valuable to you, if there are things
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that are important to you, it's worth it
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to continue working on that in spite of
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what other signals you get outside. The
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work itself is valuable.
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So, I had this proposal
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and it was supposed to be a talk
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and I found myself in a familiar
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situation.
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Turns out they're pretty different.
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So, I put a lot of time into it.
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I put weeks into it. I expended a lot of
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energy getting that talk ready.
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And I did that not only because this was
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an important career milestone for me,
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but because I was hoping that speaking
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would be a sort of cheat code for my
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conference experience.
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You see, at Railscom, when you sign in,
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you get a badge.
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And if you're a speaker, sometimes your
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badge says that.
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And I wanted that not for the status
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symbol, but it is pretty cool.
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I wanted it so that people would see
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that on my badge and ask me a question
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about my talk
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cuz I was really prepared to answer any
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questions about my talk.
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And when they asked me a question about
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my talk, all that I had to focus on was
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the right tone of voice to use, the
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right facial expressions to make, where
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to look, how to make eye contact, not
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too much eye contact, and everything
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else about how you actually talk to a
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person and not what to talk about. I was
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ready for that part,
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and it worked. Speaking was the cheat
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code I had hoped for. But, you know, I
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spent so much time thinking about myself
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that my preparation ended the second my
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last slide hit the screen. And even
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though I had spent years in the audience
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looking up to people up here, I didn't
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think that other people might say
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anything nice to me after like good job
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and that was awesome.
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Chasing that feeling became my driving
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force professionally for the next couple
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of years.
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I worked at that by speaking some more.
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Started a blog, shameless plug for
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kevinjury.com.
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make it your homepage today.
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I was a guest on some podcasts. I would
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review proposals for people who were
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sending them to conferences in the hopes
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that it would be just a little more
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likely that it got accepted. And when
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they ultimately did get accepted, I
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helped them through the preparation
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process to help them feel more
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comfortable and confident on stage.
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I even became a committer to Ruby itself
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based on information I'd learned while
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preparing a different talk.
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And in 2024, 10 years after my first
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Rails comp, I was honored to serve on
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the program committee,
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helping to select the talks and put
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together the best possible experience
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for all of the attendees.
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So, why are you here?
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Maybe you're looking to grow your
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skills. Maybe you're looking to learn
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about some new technology. Maybe there's
00:14:58.399
something at work that you've been
00:15:00.000
having a hard time with and you want to
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bring back and show everyone how much
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more productive you are. That's awesome.
00:15:06.399
I hope you found some good sessions here
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that help you with that.
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Maybe you're looking for a new job. I
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hope you stood up earlier and you've
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gotten some good leads.
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Maybe you're a speaker. That's awesome.
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Congratulations.
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Whatever the reason that brought you to
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Rails Comp, I want you to think about
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what value you've gotten out of the
00:15:28.959
experience so far. Have you achieved
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your goal?
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Has there been other benefits that you
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weren't really expecting?
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You know, Ruby Friends is more than just
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a great hashtag, though it is a pretty
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good one. It's a community through which
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I've met people that live in my
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neighborhood and that people who live
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across the world and we meet at events
00:15:53.759
like these, but we keep in touch beyond
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that. I've been at a wedding of someone
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I met at Ruby events at a table
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surrounded by people who I met at Ruby
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events who are all here and better be in
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this room or have a really good excuse.
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Being at Ruby conferences like RailsCom
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has certainly made me a better developer
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and better at my job.
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But more importantly, it's made me a
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better person,
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more aware of who I am, how I exist in
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the world, and what I need to get out of
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it.
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So, what are you going to do today?
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We got lunch coming up after another
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session.
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You find someone new and ask them what
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talks they saw today.
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Find a maintainer for a tool that you
00:16:41.279
use. Thank them and give them a specific
00:16:43.839
example about how the tool that they
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maintain has made your life better.
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Talk to the staff and tell them you're
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having a great time.
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They're the reason that this all
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happened.
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So,
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I've got to talk about the elephant in
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the room.
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With Railscom going away,
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does that mean that every opportunity
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that I spent this entire time up on
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stage talking about is also going away?
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I don't think that's true.
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experience. We will have Ruby Comp and I
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hope you'll join us there as long as
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it's safe for you to do do so.
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And there are lots of ways that you can
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choose to grow in this community and
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that you can help grow the community.
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If you're enjoying this conference
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thing, there are lots of ways to stay
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involved. Buying a ticket and showing up
00:17:50.240
is a big one. It helps make the event
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financially viable. And also conferences
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are better when people show up.
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You can be a volunteer and ask help make
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it actually happen.
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Maybe submit a proposal.
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And if you want to do the conference
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thing on hard mode, just make your own.
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How hard could it be?
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It's really hard and I'll never do it,
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but you all should.
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The same applies for a meetup where you
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might be targeting folks in your local
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area or by some other affinity group.
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If you're a person who browses the
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worldwide web and particularly the world
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of social media, drop a like on any
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posts that are impactful to you. Share
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them with your followers and comment.
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Keep the discussion going.
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You can send actual messages to human
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beings.
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Tell the person that wrote the blog post
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that fixed your problem at work the
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other day that they helped you. Whether
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they wrote it two days ago or 20 years
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ago,
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tell your favorite podcaster that you're
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in a parasocial relationship with them.
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Just try not to be weird about it or any
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weirder than opening with, "Hey, I'm in
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a parasocial relationship with you."
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Tell the person that writes the
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newsletter that faithfully shows up in
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your inbox that the work that they do
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helps you stay informed about what's
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going on.
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Tell our streamers that what they do is
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incredibly brave
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and how sharing their thought process
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has helped you inform how you do your
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work.
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And of course, for our YouTubers, make
00:19:32.080
sure to like, subscribe, and ring that
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notification bell.
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These are all ways of encouraging each
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other and it's incredibly important. It
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might sound like the people that do
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these things have this giant megaphone
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to share all this information with
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everyone and they must have a deluge of
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feedback coming back to them.
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I'm by no means internet famous, but on
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my small corner of the internet, it's
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really quiet.
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It's exceedingly rare that I found out
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that an actual human being read anything
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that I wrote. I can look at analytics,
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but I don't know if that's an actual
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human eyeball or just a bot scraping my
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traffic.
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So, encourage each other. It helps the
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community continue and it helps promote
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the activity that you want to see in it.
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As communities grow and develop over
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time, we need to make sure that they're
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resilient and can live beyond a
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particular institution like Railscom
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and can grow outside of the shadow of
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any individual, no matter how loud they
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might be or prominent they might be or
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well platformed they might be.
00:20:43.440
It's important to make sure that the
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Ruby community stays healthy.
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If you're going through all of this and
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still finding yourself wanting some more
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tangible examples about how you could
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get involved, I have a partial list for
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you.
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Locally, there's the Philly RB Meetup.
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They have regularly scheduled events and
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they also have virtual events that
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people from around the world come to.
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I've been to a few of them and I think
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there's been a maximum of one person
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actually in Philadelphia and everyone
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else has been from around the world.
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If you want to find your own meetup or
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conference, go to rubyconferences.org.
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That is merging with rubyvents.org,
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which currently already has a treasure
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trove of information about past events,
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including videos.
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If you identify as a woman or non-binary
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Rubist, I highly recommend being
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involved with WNBR.
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And of course, we have the Slack channel
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that we're all using here at the
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conference today that will persist
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beyond Rails comp so we can stay in
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touch with each other.
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As you're thinking through all of these
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options and what might work for you, it
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can seem a little daunting.
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That's true. You have to decide how and
00:21:57.280
if you're going to put yourself out
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there, what's going to work for you and
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what's not going to work for you.
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But you don't have to do it alone.
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We're all here to help each other.
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The same is true even for this talk.
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Even though I'm the person up here on
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stage saying all of these words, it
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couldn't have happened without the very
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direct support from some people and over
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a decade worth of help from so many
00:22:25.200
others who have lended their mentorship
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and most importantly their friendship.
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So I'm ending a little early
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and I want you to use that time to make
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a new connection
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or build on an existing one.
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because it just might change your life.
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So, thanks Ruby Central.
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Thank you Railscom.
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Goodbye.